Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Roles Parents Can Play While Trusting Toddlers to Make Their Own Fun
Then, be sure to set aside special time to play with your child. At this age, don’t worry too much about the specific skills your child learns from one game or another; instead, simply trust your toddler to make his own fun. Trusting toddlers to play is all about letting them lead the playtime without interrupting or changing the game’s direction.
When you sit down with your toddler, let him be in charge of experimenting with new toys. You’re an adult, so of course you know the “right way” to complete the puzzle or play with a specific toy – but don’t do it. Sit on your hands if you have to! Unless your child asks for help, back off.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you can’t still be involved in playtime. While trusting toddlers to play and make their own fun, adopt the following roles to still remain involved:
- The cheerleader: Clap and cheer when your child achieves a goal or masters a new skill during play.
- The playmate: Some games require a partner. When your child rolls you the ball, roll it back. When he laughs and runs from you, playfully chase him.
- The research assistant: If a game or toy is getting boring, run off and find the perfect addition to make it feel new again.
- The expert: Answer questions about what a toy is or what it’s made out of. If your child asks how to use it, show him some ideas.
- The psychologist: Play can become frustrating when you’re too young or too small to do something. Encourage your child, comfort him, and offer to help press a button hard enough or undo a stubborn latch.
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